people living thru their hatred, or wrath
for the rest of their lives...

it seems easier on the other side

changing is hard
no doubt
but given a chance,
one will, out of his/her own will.

and that strength will persevere
much stronger than being forced to change
due to circumstances or more often than not, other party.

all we need is time
not to change wholeheartedly
to a completely different person
cos that aint living true to oneself

but change, he/she will
slowly but surely
to be a more accepting person.

acceptance is more wholesome than compromising.